For some strange reason, men and women appear to have different reactions to the thoughts go to the doctor. Women usually want to go at the first sign of trouble, whereas men prefer to push it off as long as possible. Also, you may have noticed your own trip to the doctor that the clinic waiting area filled with many women who are all alone, while men usually have their wives along on the visit. Why women are perfectly capable of going to the doctor all alone, and generally requires the company of men, if the strong male sex?
Possible reasons that can be run through the head of the wife as to why her husband seems to put off visiting the doctor is as follows: maybe he did not want to spend money, or do not have time. But if you think about how much money you spend if the ill wind is not prevented, you trust a doctor's consultation fee is actually minimal compared. Also, your husband tends to spend long hours in front of the TV, so few hours in the clinic doctors should not be a problem.
Interestingly, experts have examined this phenomenon common among men, and have found the following as the main reason why the male population is less likely to get the inspection:
1. Men prefer not to care rather than find out what was wrong and worried to death about it. Yes, men may feel scared, but they do not want others to know how they feel. Thus they remain silent about it and pretend everything was fine so you do not bother him to go to the doctor.
2. Second, they do not like strangers touching them, especially on their private parts. This is why many men who struggle with prostate cancer would rather suffer in silence. rectal exam is also strange to them.
3 Men usually also do not want to feel any weakness in the area, which is exactly what they feel when they realize the doctor who checks here and there to what is wrong with them. The disease is considered weakness, and their macho ego will not allow them to admit it. This is why many men have gone through life without ever seeing a doctor, and then the wind died from some serious diseases that are not even aware of their family members.
4. In addition to not want to feel any weakness, they also have concerns about how they can provide for their families if they should fall ill. Although modern today welcomed a dual-income household and that person no longer bear the full burden of household expenses, he still wants to feel in control. Thus, pain seems to be an impossible choice.
Once you know the factors that underlie why your guy seems to be stubborn about going to the doctor, you can find a way to convince him and ease him out of fear. This will make the process go much easier, because you will not be ready to go to battle every time you start a conversation about the doctor's visit. Instead, you can make him realize and feel that you do not fight him, but you are on his side and he understands completely. Unfortunately for him, he finally had to give up on you, but minus the added stress you interrupt him and might mock him, he will be more inclined to agree.
If possible, the previous time, you can convince him for a routine examination, when he was in perfect health, he is more likely to be willing to go with you. Of course, it may take some convincing, too, in terms of financial costs, because he most likely will argue that he feels fine and does not require inspection. But if you know well, you will be able to convince him, and once you get a regular doctor for a checkup, the doctor will be able to find problems early on, giving you the assurance that your husband is well taken care of.
